Journey to Tabitha!

Commencing on January 9th of this year, our church began 14 days of prayer and fasting.  Among other prayer requests, I sought more discipline and intimacy in my relationship with God.  Although we still have 10 children at home, for the last couple of years, I have often struggled with lack of joy and passion in my life as well as a deeper connection with the Lord that would bring refreshing.  I knew it was available because other people spoke about it and I had definitely experienced it in the past.  I had been to the altar on numerous occasions seeking this, but to seemingly no avail.  Yet, I know that God’s timing is perfect.  However, I never considered my answer to this petition to come in the form of another adoption!  During these 14 days, Pastor admonished us to look for “burning bushes” in our daily lives.

After waiting three weeks for confirmation as to whether our “burning bush” was going to continue to burn, I can safely say that God has clearly spoken to us to adopt a young girl from China.  To be perfectly honest, I have not been particularly excited about this.  I was absolutely certain that our adopting days were over and was beginning to see the proverbial “light at the end of the tunnel” as the youngest seven would be graduating high school this spring.

On January 11, I casually looked through an email list (unsolicited) of focus children for the month of January; sent from a ministry that advocates for special needs children.  There was no picture, only the name “Sadie” and I thought the location said East Africa, not East Asia, as I impassively perused the list and went on about my business.  Several days went by and I realized “Sadie” was constantly on my mind.  (This in itself should have been a clue since I don’t seem to be able to remember anything for longer than 5 minutes!)  I didn’t mention “Sadie” to Garry for 10 days because I knew what his response would be and I really did not want to consider another adoption.  When I did share with him, what I thought God was speaking, his answer was much as I expected; “If we have to do paperwork for one, we should do it for two.” (That’s my husband, and everyone thinks I’m the crazy one!)  At that point, I contacted “Sadie’s” social worker. Pleading with her to tell me we were too old and reminding her that we had both gone through cancer treatment!  Unfazed, she was very excited that we might consider adopting Sadie. The staff who had met Sadie last summer was so impressed with her and disheartened they had not yet been able to find a family for her.

During the following week, God continued to confirm this call through His Word.  On an almost daily basis, the following scriptures jumped off the pages of my Bible.  Acts: 9:36, which speaks of Tabitha, (often referred to as Dorcas in other versions) meaning “gazelle”, as a woman known for her kind acts. Besides being part of a dance troupe and being described as lovely, graceful, and elegant, our Tabitha is described as always willing to give a helping hand. “Tabitha” is probably not a name I would have selected but since God has always named our children, I know that Tabitha is the name He has chosen for our daughter.  Then I read Psalms 10: 14 & 18, “You won’t let them down: orphans won’t be orphans forever” and “Orphans get parents, the homeless get homes.”

In the meantime, the social worker was going to contact her China counterpart to see what the chances were of them approving us.  By now, I was convinced that God was speaking, but still not sure I liked what He was saying.  Next, I read in Genesis 24:50, in the account of Israel’s servant being sent to find a wife for Isaac. “Laban and Bethuel answered, ‘This is totally from God.  We have no say in the matter, either yes or no.  Rebekah is yours.  Take her and let her be the wife of your master’s son, as God has made plain.’”I could no longer deny that God had made plain what He wanted us to do and our decision was made.

On the 1st of February, we received word from the Social Worker that we had been granted “unofficial” approval from China to turn in initial paperwork, even though we are a combined twenty one years older than their stated age limits for adopting special needs children and both have disqualifying health histories.  This is truly unheard of from China.  The social worker stated, “So, now the ball is in your court.  God has opened the door!”

A very long time ago, we told God that we would take as many children as He chose to bring home and provide for.  I just honestly thought that the ark had reached capacity.  We essentially have no retirement, very little money in the bank, and we know that Garry’s major contract will be up in a year.  But, we also know that God has never failed to  sustain us and bless us beyond what we could think or imagine. Tabitha is said to be twelve and has a repaired cleft lip/palate but will surely require several more surgeries as well as extensive orthodontic work.  

I think it is also important to state that God has more than answered my prayer request made during prayer and fasting by giving me grace to exercise more physical and spiritual discipline, draw closer to Him, and experience renewed passion and joy as we anticipate adding another daughter to our family of “18 “children. I sadly confess that my early reservations were purely selfish and a concern for my own comfort. Nevertheless, whenever I would consider that God might let us off the hook by virtue of China rejecting us, Tabitha’s little face immediately appeared in my mind, as well as the thought, “but what about her? What will happen to her?”  It never failed to bring tears to my eyes and shame to my heart. There is great reward in knowing that God has ordained this adoption and is giving us the privilege of parenting this special child.

On the 17th of February, we received the official preapproval from China allowing us to actively pursue Tabitha’s adoption which is estimated to cost $25,000.  Although this seems like a staggering amount of money, almost none of which we have, we have watched God miraculously provide nearly every dollar needed for our last eight adoptions as He has worked through the hearts of His people to rescue one more orphan child from a life of hopeless abandonment.  We rest in the belief that we will witness this miracle once again.  As a former Sunday School teacher once said, “God always pays for what He orders!”  We covet your prayers as we watch and wait for God to supply the funds to bring Tabitha home and we tackle an almost insurmountable quantity of paperwork.

Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world. James 1:27 NIV

Jan Seitz

About Jan Seitz

Jan is the wife of Garry and the mother to four biological children and fourteen adopted children ranging in age from forty three down to seventeen. They also have a dozen grandchildren and one great grandchild! They adopted their first child thirty four years ago and completed their last adoptions four years ago. According to one of her older sons, “Being somebody’s mama is the best thing you do.” Garry and Jan and their youngest ten children live in Lakeland, Florida where they own a small vegetation management company and are active in their church.
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One Response to Journey to Tabitha!

  1. Sheila Rhodes says:

    Once again, the miraculous working power of God is at work in the Seitz family! Knowing you for well over “35” years now and watching the unfolding miracles that have taken place in your family is nothing short of God’s Mercy, Grace, Love Power and Providential Plan. What you and Garry have done for so many children is nothing short of God’s Calling upon your lives. Dan and I knew you from the time you had your first adoption. Now, we’re looking at “18” total. That’s a very special calling with God’s anointing that VERY FEW are called to do Jan. May the Lord meet every single financial need in order to help make this adoption a reality! The blessings ahead from your obedience to follow God with this adoption will be mulitplied a hundred times over my friend. Our love and prayers will continually be with you throughout the process. Praying for others to enter into this along beside you as you make “The Journey To Tabitha!” I love you very much!!!!

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